Improve --force-bottle behaviour.

- set `Formula#force_bottle` from `FormulaInstaller`
- refuse to install non-bottled formulae with `--force-bottle`
- raise exceptions on fetch/pour failures if `--force-bottle is passed.

While we're here:
- use `CannotInstallFormulaError` for some `RuntimeError`/`odie`

Fixes https://github.com/Homebrew/brew/issues/8866.