Summary:
This diff adds timeout_hint_us to WriteOptions.  If it's non-zero, then
1) writes associated with this options MAY be aborted when it has been
  waiting for longer than the specified time.  If an abortion happens,
  associated writes will return Status::TimeOut.
2) the stall time of the associated write caused by flush or compaction
  will be limited by timeout_hint_us.

The default value of timeout_hint_us is 0 (i.e., OFF.)

The statistics of timeout writes will be recorded in WRITE_TIMEDOUT.

Test Plan:
export ROCKSDB_TESTS=WriteTimeoutAndDelayTest
make db_test
./db_test

Reviewers: igor, ljin, haobo, sdong

Reviewed By: sdong

Subscribers: dhruba, leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D18837