Summary:
introduce new methods into a public threadpool interface,
- allow submission of std::functions as they allow greater flexibility.
- add Joining methods to the implementation to join scheduled and submitted jobs with
  an option to cancel jobs that did not start executing.
- Remove ugly `#ifdefs` between pthread and std implementation, make it uniform.
- introduce pimpl for a drop in replacement of the implementation
- Introduce rocksdb::port::Thread typedef which is a replacement for std::thread.  On Posix Thread defaults as before std::thread.
- Implement WindowsThread that allocates memory in a more controllable manner than windows std::thread with a replaceable implementation.
- should be no functionality changes.
Closes https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/1823

Differential Revision: D4492902

Pulled By: siying

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